From happyfrosh
Last night involved a boy who got off on inescapable bondage for it's own sake. I chained him down, used the violet wand over his chest, his nipples, and cock and balls. I flipped him over and hooded him. Then I proceeded to flog his back and spank his butt with the flogger. Violet wand over his sensitive back and butt. Then cooldown with backrub. Flipped him to flat on his back, and stroked him just to the edge of cumming twice, stopping just short. Then allowed him to come. Then I unchained him and we had drinks together and discussed my performance.
To happyfrosh
"Discussed your performance?" Were there scorecards involved? ;-) Sounds a little clinical. I hope you enjoyed it as much as the boy obviously did.
From happyfrosh
Maybe a little clinical. My hope is that the drinks take the edge off of that aspect. It's the only way that I'm going to get better.
I do try to keep score. I think that this was one of the top 10 sexual experiences of his life. I haven't been able to give somebody that in a couple years. So this was a win for me.
I do try to keep score. I think that this was one of the top 10 sexual experiences of his life. I haven't been able to give somebody that in a couple years. So this was a win for me.
There are a couple things going on here. The first is that I was terrified. I had fooled around topping with boys that knew that I was a newbie.
I waited until I was approached by somebody from out of town. A friend sums this up by saying that "you don't have opening night in your home town".
I didn't know how to talk about kink. The vanilla world doesn't talk about the actual sexual experiences. In the kink world we talk about them openly for safety. People are known by their reputations as either safe players or as people who should be avoided. This was my first time trying to talk about what had happened. I took a clinical tone to try to make it okay to talk about.
The way that I dealt with him afterwards was one of my first indications that I am a service top. It took me a long time to really understand this.
I have come a long way.
