Monday, December 3, 2012

Mostly straight guy

I had a win on Friday.

soundsFun was on a work trip.  I found things to occupy my time.

I had over a mostly straight guy, westofhearts7.  I asked my standard questions to try to get a feel for his fetishes.  The last porn that he had watched had been straight BDSM porn, topped by a femDom. 

I don't watch much straight porn.  And I don't really know how a femDom behaves.  Most of the information that I have is hearsay and rumor.  But my sense is that the interaction between dom and sub happens at a bit more distance.

Trying to emulate this, I tried to make the scene involved both physical and emotional distance.  During chunks of the bondage I avoided eye contact.  Much of the touching was done with floggers (including my new bunny hide flogger) and with a riding crop.

I had some false starts with his nipples.  His nipples are a new and enjoyable experience for him.  Nipple clamps quickly became painful and had to be removed, but in the ensuing pain his penis went fully soft.  (I kept feeling that if I could get him to orgasm with the nipple clamps on it would be a profound almost religious experience, but I needed an additional set of hands to get the timing right.)

I ended up with him chained horizontally on the workout bench.  It was deliberately reminiscent of the position he had described in the straight BDSM scene.

I wanted to create an ending, so I got out the venus2000.  I positioned the winch hook above his body, and used it in place of a bungee cord for keeping the venus2000 in the right position on his cock.  It was surprisingly effective.  Use of the winch was much more adjustable than the bungee cords I had been using in other scenes.

In the aftermath of his powerful orgasm he told me that it was one of the most intense of his life.  I will count that as a win.


A short chunk of video is available.